Any person will get visibly impressed by a man whose
body language exudes confidence, style and refinement. But that, my
dear, is an art most men master only with age or have to consciously
imbibe it. Infact, there are a few important aspects of male body
language you need to keep in mind to lay a good impression on those with
you interact on day to day basis. The same is what plays lead in
impressing women too.
Tips for Impressive Male Body Language
Right Standing Posture
When standing, try to place your feet a just little bit apart from what
is usual. Being a stable posture, this will keep you from stitching your
weight. You will observe that your feet will feel comfortably planted on
the ground in this posture, allowing you to stand still for a longer
duration. This is a good male body posture and often used by the martial
artists. Any person reading male body language will immediately register
this posture as impressive.
Keep from Touching Face / Fidgeting
How do you generally keep your hands when in public? Hand or body
movement is important because unnecessary fidgeting not only looks one
seem unattractive, but also indicates that the person is nervous. As
such, the best option is to keep hands by your sides. Place the thumb at
the midpoint of the index and middle fingers. This will cut down the
unnecessary movement of the fingers. This is vital step towards decoding
body language of a confident male.
Don't Look Below
A lot of people have a general tendency to look down when not wanting
to face a particular situation. So fight the urge to look down and
instead keep your head straight. This is because looking down is taken
as an indication of weakness and unattractiveness. It is also a proven
thing that looking down has a negative affect on one's psychological
makeup. If you really have to, then try looking upwards instead. This
should be your third key towards understanding male body language.
Make slow head movements
Men of high status everywhere -- on film, in business, and in your
social circle -- all have certain traits in common. One of these is
slow, smooth movements. Don't jerk and jolt your head around as though
you've been drinking caffeine all day. Instead look around slowly and
smoothly. Smoothness and lack of fidgety movements are the main factors.
Walk Steadily and Comfortably
This type of gait gives an impression that one is classy. Though quite
understated, a man's steady and smooth walk exudes a feeling of
self-assuredness. Though you should try to inculcate this gait even in
your normal day-to-day routine, do it more consciously when wanting to
impress somebody, when appearing for an interview or wishing to stand
out in a crowd. This is your final key towards understanding / flaunting
body language of a confident male.
